We All Had Aspirations

“I was only able to help myself when I could really understand and internalize that I didn’t have the answers.”

February 28, 2013
BOBBY STALEY: I've had moments when I went down the wrong path. Was talking about this with a couple of my friends just recently. We all had aspirations to be either the fireman, the policeman, the doctor, the lawyer. And particularly in communities of color, often between the ages of 12 to 18, a lot of young men and women, those goals seem to dissipate.

I would like to be able to contribute to help people follow through on their dreams. I kind of evolved into a social worker. I been on the other end of needing assistance. People were there for me. I kind of found out that I had a knack for assisting people. And so it just seemed a natural transition into the profession.

A lot of times people don't know that they have an option. Just giving them an option is that enough to help a person walk through the door. I don't see myself as very different from people I work with. Looking back and reflecting on it, I'm sure that it was some form of social work or social workers who played a vital part in me being a more productive member of society.

“You can’t know the effect you have,” he reflects, “but I firmly believe that the investment you make in an individual comes back. Social work is a profound profession because of that. I see a connection between everyone. I feel a connection.”

This is Bobby Staley's story.